Now a days girls of my age creep about marriage. (I am 23 by the way.) They mostly say why to get married so early and lose your freedom. To those girls I wanna ask what is freedom.? Just a state of mind. Whats the meaning of your freedom if nobody is waiting for you back in that place called 'home'. Even if a girl is married she can do whatever she want to. There are no boundaries as such in this twenty first century. Today most of girls who get married and have a settled life in metros and major cities have all the freedom. Now a days it has been seen husbands themselves want there wife as smart, dynamic and most important working wife. They know financial burdens are not easy to bear especially alone. Apart from this guys themselves like to enjoy clubbing and all stuff with there spouse. Men are not even in a hurry to have kids like ancient days. Guys now a days are more chilled out. They enjoy there personal life with there social circle and let us do the same. Moreover they respect our parents and treat them on same ground. Seriously gone are the days of typical men if we try to see the top view of any men and wife relationships.
Then why these girls creep about marriage and loss of freedom together. I don't think there is loss of freedom. And even if sometimes if a person have to sacrifice something for someone, then whats the harm in that. Its not sacrifice also. Sacrifice is a big word. You may say walking in each others shoe. Just like best buddies. Life is very short we have to live it king size. Small small adjustments, keeping ones ego away and patch up even after your worst fight wont kill you. Come on. Grownup What is the meaning of freedom if you have no one to share your life with someone. Not just someone your soul-mate Life is not meant to live alone. Nobody dose that. Freedom is not setting boundary. It is setting ones free.
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